The Disempowerment Game
Now the Matrix or society is collectively providing the guidelines to manipulate populations into a state of acquired helplessness and we have to be careful not to pass that nasty variety of the Stockholm Syndrome on to our surroundings.
In some ways we are at the very basic levels of our lives.
We could ask ourselves this question:
“Do I really teach the people around me to be helpless and why did I plug into that?”
The programmers of the acquired helplessness, for example, will always take care of their partner´s more practical needs, food, clothing and so on.
Now there’s nothing wrong with that if it is at a very conscious level:
When it´s not it could very well be the extension of society’s programing. And I think it is, since it is so well conditioned and orchestrated.
An example:
She goes away for a weekend, but before she does that she´ll cook for the entire weekend and make small trays of food in the microwave oven stating:
“He cannot make his own food, so little boxes, aren’t I the good wife.”
Yes you are dear, but hey. What are you teaching the poor man? Total dependence and acquired helplessness.
It´s not the Da Vinci code to crack here.
Tell him:
“You can make a list, go to the mall, buy what you fancy, Google a recipe and you´ll be safe” and the beneficial argument: “ What would you prefer Friday evening, some hot love or should I make little boxes of food for you? “
If he goes for the little boxes, I would, somehow re-evaluate the relationship.
