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The Love and ‘The Stick in the Wheel’
Author: Soren Dreier
Some romantic relationships are kept up by the desire of one person in that relationship and not by both.
It is a very thin line of the relationship having served its course and a pair of eyes straying to the horizon and not really being present in it, or maybe even not noticing, on a conscious note, that the relationship is not fully functional anymore. It is a very difficult place to be for both in that relationship, since one can feel that the other is not quite present, and that other person thinking: ‘Am I in danger here?’
I have noticed these mechanics often and it is a very delicate process to give advice to it, since both in the relationship are having a great deal of difficulty confronting it. It often starts out as a very transparent vibe and making that vibe fully visible will cause a great deal of pain, because if brought to full disclosure, it will mean that the couple will have to disengage.
So rarely is it seen that both in a relationship reach the conclusion simultaneously: “Yes, we are through – lets split – and thank you for all the love you allowed me to give you and the love you gave me.” Though it does happen – but maybe at the rate of one out of a thousand.
Maybe you know about this from your own life.
Source: http://philosophers-stone.co.uk/wordpress/2014/06/the-love-and-the-stick-in-the-wheel/
