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Author: Soren Dreier
This seems to be an ongoing theme: ‘Are you allowed to evolve’.
It’s like voices of the past coming from the eerie mist of days gone by promoting the attitude of: ´Stay, cries the crawling – all stuck in the mud’ of days and times gone by.
If our souls get the ‘move on’ blues, well, we’ve got to move on. There’s a good reason to label it as a blues, since departing never has been easy. And I’m, of course, pointing at emotional departures, not so much practical ones.
I came across this the other day:
“Soren, I’m well out of this relationship and have been for a couple of years. Had a few occasional partners since. My ex is throwing this at me: ‘Why don’t you pay our loan out, I think it’s because you’re taking me as an economical hostage. I’m so tired of this since I’m struggling economically and I keep the payments.’ What’s going on here? It makes me sad that she would even think that.”
This guy had moved on and it saddened him that people would think so, since she kind of alerted some key figures they both knew. The overall picture here is: They don’t want you to succeed. And because they don’t want that, they pin you up at a given time long gone.