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Top 10 Tips For Handling Abuse From Parents
If you’re a child or adult that is being physically abused by his/her parents, here are ten tips for handling the abuse:
10. Don’t Pay Attention
Yes, seriously! I mean you if you start bothering about so small abuses by your parents you will go on taking more and more stress. So the best way is, Why the hell do you pay attention to them? Just stop thinking about it, ignore it. Keep yourself busy in your other activities, friends, study, books etc which will at least help you in building your future. Don’t pay attention to their small small abuses, consider that they maybe in some other stress and keep thinking positive. If still your parents are doing the same thing again with more intensity then carry on to further ways.
9. Keep Calm
When your parents shout at you, beat you, swear at you unnecessarily then obviously you feel very angry for it and you give your reaction by doing the same things to them. But if you want to handle the situation then please don’t do such stupidity and waste your energy, because both will suffer through this. Instead keep calm in such situation. Keep calm by counting in your mind, ten to one that is descending it would definitely help you to cool down. Don’t argue with them, go to your room instead to be quite mentally. This method will really help you many times.
8. Discussion
Firstly, in every bad situation you should always give this method that is discussion a try. Discussion helps you to lead to solution or sometimes find reason behind the problem. Your problem is that your parents are abusive to you in spite that you are innocent and it’s not o.k of them to behave with you in such manner every time. Hence, discuss with them when they are in light mood with you, ask them why is this happening and why are they doing so? Also tell them that it hurts you a lot when they behave with you in such manner. And also discuss with them that it is affecting your studies and your emotional health. So that they will realize their behavior and also start caring about you. Hence, give it a try and maybe you will get solved your problem forever.
7. Develop Your Skills
If you want to handle your parents who are abusive to you every time, then develop your talking skills. You should learn how to talk when the person in front of you if is in angry mood or rude to you what are different skills to make them cool down and also make them listen your point. Also learn how to do arguments softly. And most importantly controlling your voice tones while doing it. This thing will help you to handle them in practicality. It’s hard to acquire but if you are in need of it you would definitely do it.
6. Take Elders Help
You want to get out of this situation, but to get to your goal you need to take some steps first. You can’t totally handle this weird situation when your parents don’t understand you or care to listen to you, So the best way is take others help. But don’t take your friend’s or anyone’s because chances are less that your parents will hear them. Take help of your family relatives and the elder one’s because when they will talk to your parents, your parents will take your matter seriously and will be in control. Hence, always take your elders help because they can bring much more influence and pressure on your parents.
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