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Well, I guess whoever it is they are likely to be supportive and there for you when you need them. They can probably list your good points without a thought and stand up for you in the face of criticism. But what if they didn’t do that? Would they still be your best friend?
What if your best friend continually put your down: to your face and to others?
What if your best friend criticised your body, your hair, your intellect and your actions?
What if your best friend knocked you back every time you had an idea?
What if your best friend told you that you just weren’t good enough?
What if they did that to you all the time?
You would probably kick them into touch right? And if you’re not confrontational then you would just avoid them, move away or change your number hoping they would go away wouldn’t you?
What if you were your best friend? And, if you were, why don’t you treat yourself with a little more respect?
This is a wakeup call to all of you who put yourselves down. You call yourself names. You look at yourself in the mirror with disgust. You tell yourself not to be so dumb. You say ‘who do you think you are’ when you have a dream or a desire.
Become your own best friend. It’s the only way and you are worth it.
Jackie Notman is an intuitive advisor, coach and energy reader who works on an energetic level with individuals and businesses using tools such as Feng Shui, Numerology, Dowsing, Astrology, I Ching and the Tarot. This article is from her site at www.jackienotman.co.uk
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Best friends should be criticising you. Or they would be fair weather friends. It’s only your best friends who will tell you how it is. But it’s up to you how you respond, if you are immature then no amount of criticism is tolerated, they know it all and know best, a typical mind of an adolescent.
Mature people take it for what it is. My circle of friends we are always pixing each other over our choices. eg my wife bought some fancy lowland sheep for her family farm and a friend asked if they came with a shovel. It depends on your sense of humour I guess.