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Humanity’s spiritual problem; the greatest impediment to mankind’s spiritual growth. If you are serious about growing in truth, then this is very important to understand.
Is it Spiritual Nonsense? Divine Love Spirituality – blog
The greatest problem facing mankind is our relationship with our parents. It might not seem very spiritual and indeed not so much of a spiritual problem that we have to overcome, however it may as well be an obstacle as insurmountable as an enormous mountain that stands between us and our getting on evolving our soul with truth, for it is that big and the major problem we all face.
The most important spiritual relationship we have other than with our soulmate and God is with our parents during our forming years. It is extremely influential determining all our adult patterns of how we relate to ourselves, nature, other people and God. If there is one wrong spoke in the wheel of our forming years then that wrong spoke will continue to be a broken spoke for the rest of our adult lives, and even for the rest or eternity, until we pay attention to it and seek its truth. And whether we want to believe it or not, we’re full of broken spokes. We are so damaged yet we accept how we are to be normal, failing to understand the extent of our problems, let alone having any real idea about or appreciation of how to heal the damage.
The simple truth is this, and it’s the greatest spiritual truth we need to embrace if we’re ever personally and collectively to get anywhere: we have to understand that our parents don’t perfectly love us, they don’t and didn’t love us as we needed to be loved. They failed us as being parents. Some people might have loved their children more than others, some people might feel loved more by their parents than other people, however, such ‘love’ is still all within what amounts to an unloving system.
Higher spiritual truths inform us that we’ve been incarnated into a world that’s in rebellion. Humanity, mostly unbeknownst to itself, lives against truth and love, even fighting against it, rebelling, rejecting and repulsing it. It doesn’t want to know about it, even though many people say they do and believe they are advancing in love and truth. But that is only more of the delusion we live under, for we can’t heal ourselves of our rebellious ways until we understand that we’re in rebellion and what it is all about: how it came about – how it was passed onto us, how we’re daily manifesting it, how we’re passing it onto our children, and how it negatively influences all our relationships. And until humanity stops and accepts these truths about itself and then decides it wants to heal itself of its rebelliousness, nothing will change. Spiritual and religious systems will come and go like they have done, some outlasting others, but still no real progress will be made as can be seen by the current state of the world, how we are with each other, how we’re not all-loving, always fighting and hating, how there are the rich and poor. If our spiritual and religious systems did actually help and support us being based on truth and love, then we’d be living on earth as if we were all living in paradise, all loving each other without war, hatred, fear, and with cruelty never entering our minds. So no matter what spiritual or religious system you live, and irrespective of how good and loving and true you might believe you are in it, still it’s all only within an anti-truth and anti-love state of mind and will. And until you accept this and understand the truth of it, you’ll move along continuing to delude yourself that you’re making spiritual progress, when you’re only going around in circles taking yourself ever deeper into your rebellion against the very things you wrongly believe you are helping yourself get rid of.
The acid test is that one day you will come to the end when your religion or spiritual system will no longer give you what you need. It might happen whilst on earth, and if not, then it will happen one day in the mansion worlds during your spirit life. And when that happens, then what are you going to do? And what are you going to do when you’ve tried all that’s on offer and still you feel unfulfilled – that you’re not actually getting anywhere like you thought you were, and even feel like you’ve been going backwards? And when that day comes then it will be time to go back and start looking at the truth of your relationship with your parents, because it’s within those relationships that the reasons for your lack of fulfilment will be found.
And if you’ve read this far and do feel fulfilled, then you’re probably not taking what I’m saying too seriously, if at all, so then you can understand that you are fulfilling yourself with falsehoods, all of which will one day let you down.
So if you do sincerely want to evolve your soul in truth and heal yourself of all your problems, then you’re going to have to want to look at every aspect of your relationship with your parents, grandparents and any other people who were influential during your forming years and right the way through your childhood. And until you do, you may as well just keep on enjoying your wrongness deluding yourself that you’re getting somewhere in it. You may as well keep doing your meditations, keep saying your prayers, keep going to church, keep going to the temple, keep reading and listening to the words of the so-called spiritual masters, keep trying to channel spirits and get the latest low-down on how to live by using your mind to have control over your feelings, keep believing in reincarnation or aliens that are going to save you, keep eating the right food and having the right amounts of sex, keep your marriage going loving your spouse and kids, keep working on yourself using all the self-help methods, keep doing whatever it is you are doing that you think is helping you, even though it’s not.
No one, not even Jesus has revealed the whole truth about our need to look to our relationship with our parents for all the answers. However it is what we have to do. Alice Miller the Swiss psychologist was on the right track, read her books if you want a professionals opinion about it, however also understand she wasn’t approaching it from the spiritual side of things.
The truth we’re all so desperately longing for and needing is starring us right in the face. Everything you have to do with your parents is part of it. But the hard part is that because your relationships with your parents and early carers is not as loving as they should have been, then there will be lots of issues to do with your parents, and this can be very confronting. Anyone who has undertaken serious therapy knows that one has to head down deep into the relationship with ones parents to affect any serious healing; however if you want to heal ALL of your wrongness, all of your rebellion and become perfect and true, you’ll have to go much further than any sort of therapy or therapist can take you, even if you believe your therapy has finished and sorted out all of your problems. It will have only scratched the surface, with a vast amount more to come when you decide to ‘get back on the healing track’. However to heal yourself you don’t actually need a therapist, they can of course help, but we can be completely self-healing. We all have the means, it’s all right there within you, it’s all contained in your very own feelings.
If you have read this far then I will tell you the hard core truths you will have to face concerning yourself and your relationship with your parents.
You are not truly loving.
Your relationships are not truly loving.
Your relationship with your parents were/are not truly loving.
They didn’t love you. They don’t love you.
You didn’t love them. You don’t love them.
Most of what you experience and believe love to be will turn out to be unloving. If you did experience any true love, or you are truly loving in any way, as you heal yourself of your unlovingness through your feelings, so this love will remain – all ‘false love’ will go. When you read ‘your parents didn’t love you’, and ‘you don’t love them’, and everything screams within you that this is not true, they DID love me and I DO love them, still you will have to look into the relationship with your parents to see if indeed such feelings are true. And as I said, if they turn out to be true, they will remain, but there will undoubtedly be other areas of your relationship with them that are not so loving, these being the areas you will need to address.
If you accept these truths, at least even just with your mind, then you are open to moving deeper into the truth of yourself and with your parents to see if what I have written is true. If you already know such truths about yourself and your relationship with them, then you are ready to take such understanding deeper if you are not already doing so.
And until humanity understands that by existing in an anti-love and anti-truth state of mind and will is not conducive to love and truth, so all it believes and thinks truth and love to be is wrong, nothing will change. Cycles of civilisation will come and go as they have done for aeons, with humanity still none the wiser about its plight. No one has understood it so far, other than Jesus and Mary Magdalene and perhaps a few other people, but no one to my understanding has fully embraced such knowledge and healed themselves of their wrongness through looking to their feelings for their truth.
And so until we are prepared to seriously look at and analyse our relationships with our parents ALL BEING DONE THROUGH OUR FEELINGS WHILST KEEPING OUR MIND OUT OF IT, we will carry on with all the rubbish our religions and spirituals systems churn out concerning our need to obey and respect and love our parents, the very people who were our torturers. We have grown up in prison, the warders being our parents. We have learnt how to please them, and in doing so, they being pleased with us have bestowed their ‘love’ on us. But such love was very fickle for when we displeased them they punished us. Now as adults we are the warders carrying on the ‘good works’, as we take our own children and put them ‘through the system’. And so generation after generation so-called loving parents abuse their children in all sorts of ways that we have absolutely no idea about. And children continue to suffer as they are turned into untrue adults, then to pass on the family lines of untruth and feeling-denial. The Rebellion has penetrated far into our minds, wills and psyche, we’re full of it, and it takes years of hard feeling-healing work to divest ourselves of it.
And if you read this far – well done!
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There two types of religious/spiritual folks:
1. The folks who are only interested in the subject for the subjects sake, it’s a personal thing.
2. The folks who are only interested in subjecting it onto everyone else, it’s a thought and belief intolerant dictatorship thing.
Which category do you fall in? By the looks, it’s the latter. You talk about God but which God do you mean? The one you just happened to have been brainwashed from birth into believing exists? Or perhaps you mean Zeus or Dionysus, who knows with such ambiguity. Looks like you are a victim of your parents beliefs and they of theirs… Oh the irony, religion is like a hereditary disease.
Pix there’s only one God- our Divine and Heavenly Mother and Father – Two Personalities; expressions of the One Soul.
When you long to Them for their Divine Love, and then feel it come into your soul in answer to your request for it, it changes you, and you know that God is real. It takes it out of the mind and beliefs into a truth and feeling of knowing. However you can’t give your knowing or truth to another person, they have to experience God loving them for themselves.
And I am a total victim of my parents and their beliefs – we all are, you can’t avoid it, but you can heal it when you no longer want to be part of them.
Divine Love Spirituality doesn’t push religion or God onto anyone, it’s merely an alternative way to God and one that makes you confront all the wrongness within you, not one that seeks to try and keep it all hidden under the mat. And for those people who want to live true and deal with all their yuk, it offers a way to do that through your Feeling-Healing.
One day Pix you’ll no longer fear God or fear losing something or fear being entangled by something by aligning yourself with God. And you might find that Divine Love Spirituality actually suits you; and if nothing else it will sure challenge you.