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No one wants to be told their relationship with their parents is not right. And yet unless you want to look into the truth of it, you’ll never grow spiritually in truth.
No one wants to be told their relationship with their parents is not right. No one wants to be told they weren’t loved by their parents. And even people who might know this, or have some idea about it, still don’t want to accept it completely. And even the minority who do know it and feel they have fully accepted it, if they have not completed their whole Feeling- or Soul-Healing by looking for the truth of themselves through their feelings, then they too will still have more to accept.
Why the mess that humanity is has managed to stagger along for all these years with virtually no one cottoning on to the truth of what’s wrong with us and what we need to do to heal ourselves is because virtually no one wants to confront their relationship with their parents. Most people want to keep pretending they love their parents and were loved by them. Most people need their families too much for support and even self-identity. Most people if asked would answer, yes, I love my parents and they love me. Yet when questioned further, most people I would imagine would also be able to point out areas in their relationship with their parents that they were not perfectly happy with. And it’s within such areas that the hidden truth lies. And yet few people want to look into this Pandora’s Box within themselves.
How would you feel is you were told that for you to truly spiritually grow you had to pull apart every aspect of your relationship with your parents, examine it to see if it did make you feel loved, and if not, why not, and that until you look so closely at your relationships with your parents you are not growing spiritually? How would you feel if you were told that because you are not addressing all such issues with your parents through your Feeling-Healing, all that you believe to be what you’d call your spiritual progress was in fact only advancing your mind and having nothing to do with true spiritual advancement which concerns evolving your soul in truth? How would you feel that all you believe is rubbish, needs to be thrown out, the slate cleared and for you to start again? And this time around, to start by wanting to uncover the whole truth of your relationship with your parents. And that you make this your life’s work, that you will not stop until you understand every aspect of it, good and bad. And that it will be your spiritual focus until you’ve completely healed yourself of all the negative influences that have resulted because of your parents unloving treatment of you.
And what if you were told that by going to church, going to your temple to carry out your holy instructions, by doing your meditations, longing for the Divine Love, doing your self-help work that empowers your mind to have more control over those weaker annoying aspects of yourself you don’t like, is only running away from the truth of yourself. That such practices are in fact not helping you get closer to yourself and God but taking you further away.
And how might you feel once you understand that all that dedicated time you’ve put into trying to advance yourself spiritually has not helped you one bit. All those years of religiously obeying the tenets of your faith has not helped your soul grow in truth at all. That all you’ve believed to be the right way was in fact the wrong way. That all your mental accumulation of ‘knowledge’ has actually served only to pamper your ego and clog your mind with unnecessary and mostly useless, wrong and very misleading information. What if you’ve been going the wrong way? Are you prepared to stop, give it all up, and examine your relationship with your parents until you’ve put it all under the microscope and seen it for what it really is?
And we all face this sooner or later.
People working to heal their unloving parenting and grow spiritually in truth
