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Man Answers Question: What To Look For In A Woman
What Do I look For In A Woman?
A Question for Men To Ask Themselves
I Wrote this document after a conversation that I had with a woman whom I know is interested in me, but, my affections for her are not the same. She’s a good woman, and she would be a good woman for a good man, but, she just isn’t for me.
I’m a very conscientious person & observe everything
~~~~What Do I look for in a Woman? ~~~
I’ve been on this earth for 47 years and 9 months, as of today. For a lot of people, that’s a life time, and with a lifetime of knowledge, I’ve concluded some thoughts about what type of woman that I would “allow” at my side.
One of the quotes that I live by in this life is;
“People will treat you the way that you allow them to treat you,,,, or,,, people will treat you the way that you demand that they treat you”
Thus, each one of us is in control of who we allow in our lives, and we are in control of how they treat us, in our presence. However, what I have come to realize is, a Man is a totally different entity than a Woman. A different entity means; a man’s approach, and view of life, is totally different from how a woman view, and approach life…, and it is that way because a man’s nature is different from a woman’s nature.
If I accept a woman’s nature for what it is, and if a woman accepts my man’s nature for what it is, then all we have to do is understand each other’s nature…, and by understanding each other’s nature, we can allow each other to be what we are…, based on our nature.
That leads me to the point of the purpose of this article, which is,
“what do I look for in a woman”?
There are very few qualities in a woman’s nature that I believe…, ought to be part of their day to day presentation, and those qualities are:
femininity, gentleness, and her ability to believe in something that she feels is right for her.
I’m not saying that other womanly characteristics are not important, but for me, these three qualities are what differentiate a man’s nature from a woman’s nature. Having a woman that dress and styles herself like a woman…, and touches me with the softness of her hands…, as she looks at my face…, is what I want at my side. A Woman to me, provides a conscious support mechanism that allows me to make daily decisions that some may say, are not prudent, but to my woman, her presence and her eye contact… creates a force field around me that provides protection against my “doubts and doubters“, while providing me reassurance and confidence…, that she will be at my side.., if I am wrong or if I make a mistake.
Thus, a woman at my side…, understands her femininity and how her femininityought to be displayed for any, and all occasions…, daily. A woman at my side understands that it’s her gentle nature that makes her attractive to a man, and not her ability to be strong, and demanding…, it’s her expatiations of being treated like a woman, that she demands, and it’s her ability to remind me that “a heart is sensitive“, and can be bruised very easily,
if I am not conscientious of what I say, and do…, at all times.
Finally, that woman at my side…, allows me to be a man each day, allows me to be me in my skin each day, yet it’s her eyes that reminds me that it’s my responsibility to be a strong man each day…, a man that makes good and prudent decisions for the both of us each day, a man that understands that it’s my male emotional strength that provides the foundation of our lives.
A Man, sometimes, simply needs a good loving hug, or a gentle touch, from his woman……,
to make him feel special to that,,,, 1 woman,,,,, that believes in him.
This is what I look for when I look into the eyes of a woman each day, so, when you’re wondering what type of woman I’m looking for…, these are the qualities that I look for, and I look for a woman each day.. and I will continue to look for a good woman each day…
until I find one that meets my desired qualities & specifications
Felton M Batiste jr.
8/20/10
Fantastic. Excellent qualities to look for … femininity, gentleness. And I agree with you expressed that what you look for is someone who will be by your side. So true.
For those that would think that this writing is cool or interesting, I’m challenging Men & Woman to write
What I look For In A Woman/Man,
and send it to me: “[email protected]”, and I’ll post your description of what you look for in a mate and link it to this website.
Writing what you look for in a mate does several things for you, and by posting it for all to see, you validate your heart and what others will understand about you.
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Good luck to you Mr. Author. You most desevedly should have what you seek. You know what you want and there is someone out there that thinks just like you. You are going to be a happy man one day. You don’t need luck, you have conviction. That’s all you need. For the record, we all have our own idea mate on different levels. But you sir have expressed yourself in a way that says………”I deserve what I understand a loving relationship should be.” Yes indeed, you will be a happy man one day.
Thank you for the comment, and your words are correct, yet, I believe that we all are capable of looking inside if we choose too. The request for others to send me there description of what they look for is intended to force one to look in the mirror.
A task that a lot find difficult, but, in doing so, perhaps looking into ones mirror will shed some light on whether or not they are, in fact, happy, or are they simply “existing” in a relationship.
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