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Being in a love relationship should mean that his love makes you feel Special.
Under the big Umbrella of Love there are several sensations that you should be feeling if you are under that umbrella with him.
1. He cares about you tenderly ( As Elvis Presley sang in “Love Me Tender” ) –and so you feel treasured and sometimes even put high up on a pedestal.
2. He wants to spend his Sundays, Mondays and most days with only you —and so you feel needed , like an important member of a very private club.
3. He shares his dreams, wishes and fears with you and so you feel a sense of closeness and intimacy.
4. He is there for you when you need him — and so you feel connected and not alone.
5. He loves to make love to you and so you feel beautiful, sexy and desirable.
Of course, all of these good feelings need to be long lasting in order to qualify for a –True Love. As most of us have seen, the dizzying rush of infatuation can fool us into thinking that a whirlwind affair qualifies as True Love, when it is really only a temporary, mostly biochemical phenomenon.
So, when you’re with someone whom you are giving your love, time and energy to—make sure you are receiving the full “Umbrella of Love” from him and watch out for the following.
a. Some guys will be very tender, but only when they want or need something from you.
b. Some guys will spend time with you but only if you do what they want you to do. If you want to do something that he doesn’t want to do, he’ll be gone in a second.
c. Some guys will share feelings with you but these will be mostly lies and half-truths, while keeping their real emotions hidden. Oh yes, if they are under the influence of drugs or alcohol then you might get a dose of how they really feel about something and it usually will not be pretty.
d. Some guys will be there for you when they feel like it, and only then. Otherwise, they will keep you guessing as to where they are and when they will call or see you again. They use this “keep her guessing” behavior to maintain control in the relationship.
e. Some guys will make beautiful love to you when they feel like it and as soon as they are satisfied, the evening is over. For them, sexual intimacy is more about hormones and scoring points.
And so, if you’re in a relationship—-make sure that he makes you feel like You’re the Only Girl in the World —–Often!
And listen to Rihanna put this important message to music———
2012-09-10 02:16:37